Do I really need a dam?
I'm in my 40s. My man wanted to marry me and provide for me so I can take care of HIM. He hates me now cause I flipped the script (changed my mind about him). I'm not a doormat. I've experienced all types of losers and I want to be married for the rest of my life, but, why can't I be with someone who I know really loves and cares about ME? Not another loser who needs a nurse. I'm at rock bottom, raised my kids solo to adulthood and I know I can still reach a couple goals for myself as long as I have health and determination. Love or no love, do I really need a dam (him) blocking the flow of my river? Won't it happen for us anyway if it's meant to be for us?
Marriage & Divorce - 7 Answers
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Well if you don't want to take care of him, don't marry him. Why is this so difficult?
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you know the answer.
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Only if it's meant to be it will happen, otherwise whatever happens will happen.
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Your question indicates that you have followed similar paths before, and not liked the results you had found. What you are proposing with this man is a marriage of convenience. This might be all fine and good if you wish to live loveless and under his thumbs, so to speak. The law doesn't necessarily provide for such arrangements, and if he decides to stop "providing" for you, what then? Your best bet is to either stay single, or to attempt a real relationship with a man who loves you for you. Personally, I think that you may need some professional help if you have been selling yourself short in this way as your description suggests. You have been choosing desperate men who will resent you on many levels... why?
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IDK; are you a beaver?? LOL. If he is making you into a doormat then hell no, it's time to dump his sorry ass. But if he is only trying to achieve his own goals and needs your help until he does then you married him and you should at least give him that chance. Know what I mean?
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"why can't I be with someone who I know really loves and cares about ME?" Because those aren't the types of men YOU choose to be with.
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You sound to me like someone who is a bit to picky.It is okay that you still have goals you want to reach and keep your river open(so to speak).Let me just throw this at you though,time is like a demon that creeps up and takes a womans looks before they realize it,so don't keep your river flowing to long or you may just be up it without a paddle(so to speak).
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Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Thursday, December 1, 2011
Nursing School Options
Nursing School Options?
Hey everyone, thanks for checking this out. I have a real dilemma on my hands. My life dream is to become a military nurse, I truly feel called to do it. By the end of this year (at around May), I have to make my decision about the ROTC scholarship and whether I want to join the military or not. A big bonus to the military is the paid tuition, due to the fact that my family cannot pay for school. My decisions are, Get into Oakland University's or University of Detroit's BSN of nursing program freshman year, go to Michigan State or University of Michigan, do my pre-reqs there, then try to get into their nursing program. If I get into Oakland, I don't need to do the ROTC. I hear getting into BSN programs your freshman year is really tough, but do you think I stand a chance? Here are my stats. 3.9 GPA with honors and AP classes, 1st chair trumpet player in all top bands at my school, All-District player every year, top rankings in Solo & Ensemble, Marching Band section leader, loads of volunteer hours, Student Council rep, interact (community service) member, Varsity Cross-Country, Soccer, and Track, Track team captain. **Do you think it's possible for me to get in a nursing program freshman year, or should I just go be a doctor? Basically, I'm afraid to do nursing because if I don't get all A's and get into a nursing program I'm scared of being left with a useless degree. Will it be useless? Then I think about being a doctor because I know you don't NEED to get all A's, but then you go to school for 10 years. There are so many pro's and cons, and I don't know what to do. I can choose ROTC and pray I get into a good nursing school, or just go be a doctor. What are your opinions? Sorry about the rambling. Also, I don't mind studying for long amounts of time. I'm also very very outgoing and friendly. I'm a great people person. **Do you think I'd get into nursing schools easier if admissions saw I was going into the Navy or Army for nursing or medicine?
Health Care - 1 Answers
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It sounds like you are a very driven, goal-oriented person. I was in band, too (and played trumpet), so I know how challenging it can be. You really need to talk to your guidance counselor and if possible go to the colleges you are considering for a visit. There are a lot of options open to you and the ROTC sounds like a great way to accomplish your goals.
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Hey everyone, thanks for checking this out. I have a real dilemma on my hands. My life dream is to become a military nurse, I truly feel called to do it. By the end of this year (at around May), I have to make my decision about the ROTC scholarship and whether I want to join the military or not. A big bonus to the military is the paid tuition, due to the fact that my family cannot pay for school. My decisions are, Get into Oakland University's or University of Detroit's BSN of nursing program freshman year, go to Michigan State or University of Michigan, do my pre-reqs there, then try to get into their nursing program. If I get into Oakland, I don't need to do the ROTC. I hear getting into BSN programs your freshman year is really tough, but do you think I stand a chance? Here are my stats. 3.9 GPA with honors and AP classes, 1st chair trumpet player in all top bands at my school, All-District player every year, top rankings in Solo & Ensemble, Marching Band section leader, loads of volunteer hours, Student Council rep, interact (community service) member, Varsity Cross-Country, Soccer, and Track, Track team captain. **Do you think it's possible for me to get in a nursing program freshman year, or should I just go be a doctor? Basically, I'm afraid to do nursing because if I don't get all A's and get into a nursing program I'm scared of being left with a useless degree. Will it be useless? Then I think about being a doctor because I know you don't NEED to get all A's, but then you go to school for 10 years. There are so many pro's and cons, and I don't know what to do. I can choose ROTC and pray I get into a good nursing school, or just go be a doctor. What are your opinions? Sorry about the rambling. Also, I don't mind studying for long amounts of time. I'm also very very outgoing and friendly. I'm a great people person. **Do you think I'd get into nursing schools easier if admissions saw I was going into the Navy or Army for nursing or medicine?
Health Care - 1 Answers
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It sounds like you are a very driven, goal-oriented person. I was in band, too (and played trumpet), so I know how challenging it can be. You really need to talk to your guidance counselor and if possible go to the colleges you are considering for a visit. There are a lot of options open to you and the ROTC sounds like a great way to accomplish your goals.
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Monday, November 28, 2011
Anybody is listening to the same music I do? Mostly Alt.Rock,acoustic looking for somebody to share interests
Anybody is listening to the same music I do? Mostly Alt.Rock,acoustic looking for somebody to share interests.?
Ok, My favorite bands are "Something Corporate", "The Fray", "No Limits"album from RESET*, "Panic At The Disco", few songs of "Radiohead", few songs of "Hot Hot Heat", "As Tall as Lions", "Augustana" , Everything made by Ben Gibbard ("Death Cab for Cutie" , "The Postal Service" (this one is my favorite band), and his solo songs)) , "Goodnight Nurse" , "We the Kings" , "California" song by Metro Station * (Most RESET members are now simple plan now, i like few songs of simple plan too but its not one of my fav bands anymore) What bands should I listen to? I'm 15years old, and if you have same interests, and skype account , add me ikc.shadow (haha made this when I was 8) if you want to talk about music, about everything, would be really nice .. Thanks. Val. P.S. Ignore the question tag in the end of my "open question" it isn't meant to be there :)
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I love The Postal Service - definitely my favourite band. I would love for them to release a new CD ... Sadly, it looks like it's not going to happen anytime soon. Well, I also listen to The Bravery, Interpol, The Shins, Bloc Party, Angels & Airwaves, and Dashboard Confessional. You might like to check them out.
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Ok, My favorite bands are "Something Corporate", "The Fray", "No Limits"album from RESET*, "Panic At The Disco", few songs of "Radiohead", few songs of "Hot Hot Heat", "As Tall as Lions", "Augustana" , Everything made by Ben Gibbard ("Death Cab for Cutie" , "The Postal Service" (this one is my favorite band), and his solo songs)) , "Goodnight Nurse" , "We the Kings" , "California" song by Metro Station * (Most RESET members are now simple plan now, i like few songs of simple plan too but its not one of my fav bands anymore) What bands should I listen to? I'm 15years old, and if you have same interests, and skype account , add me ikc.shadow (haha made this when I was 8) if you want to talk about music, about everything, would be really nice .. Thanks. Val. P.S. Ignore the question tag in the end of my "open question" it isn't meant to be there :)
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I love The Postal Service - definitely my favourite band. I would love for them to release a new CD ... Sadly, it looks like it's not going to happen anytime soon. Well, I also listen to The Bravery, Interpol, The Shins, Bloc Party, Angels & Airwaves, and Dashboard Confessional. You might like to check them out.
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